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cutie nicole

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Hello Everyone
« on: February 26, 2013, 09:00:24 AM »


    First i want to thank everyone for all the good times we have had here , all the pictures, and Stories,  links,the laughs , the tears ...

    It time for me to close  a lot of webb pages , to clean up my computer , like Mary Beth my health has taken a turn and im only going to get worse not better ....

   My lungs are full of flem and im drowning in my own liquid , i wake up at night or during the day breathing like a person who has run a 2 mile race , i cant walk any
   
   distance any more , like i really want to anymore , im giving up my drivers lic as i dont feel like im safe to drive being as i cough , and at times i go black or in

  other words im driving down a highway at 60 miles an hour and i cough and i pass out i black out , to say thats not safe is stupid on my part , does that make since ??

  My feet are turning a deep purple and my legs swell up to the point where i can not get them warm , my Doctor want to remove them , I told him i came into this world

  With two legs and 2 ft and im going out the same way so the die is cast .... A friend of mine who has or had the same problems im have , went and had both his legs

  removed , his lungs where as bad as mind , he died on the table , Not me .....

   Please dont cry for me , i would not change anything in my life ,( well maybe a couple of things ) I had a good life , i did what i felt was right for me , and i dressed the

   Way i wanted to dress , if you remember anything i say here today let it be this  Be ture unto your self , be who and what you are for life is to short to be any

  different.

    Thank you Betty For so much you have given and given and asked for so little in return, Yours and Mary beths sites where the first i found back im the 90s , i

    Dont think a day has passed that i didnt stick my head in and looked around , If mary beth reads this see you upstairs girl you have been a good friend

   Thanks for your love and time ....

   God bless everyone, i will be closing my life as cutie nicole sometime in the next couple of weeks until then be good have fun but please be safe life is so short

   bye for now  ...Nicole
   


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Re: Hello Everyone
« Reply #1 on: February 26, 2013, 01:25:02 PM »
So sorry you too are have lung problems. Hang in there. We'll say a prayer for you.

Keep your air as fresh & clean as possible. Use good air filters on your furnace & AC. Get a few stand alone HEPA or near HEPA air filter machines. Avoid ones that might generate ozone (those are for cleaning unoccupied rooms & must be aired out when they're done). I can give you some leads on where to get nice ones really cheap if you like. You must leave a window open a little crack even in the cold winter to allow some fresh air to circulate. You must use AC in hot weather but still leave a window cracked to allow so fresh air through. Also your furnace consumes a lot of oxygen in the house. You need as much O2 as possible. You might consider turning down your furnace a little more, & wearing warmer clothes or using an electric heater in the area you're hanging out in to stay warm. Cooler air is more concentrated so contains more O2 than hot or humid air.

Don't over eat. Spread your meals out into several smaller meals rather than 3 big ones. If your belly is full, it restricts the distance your diaphragm can move to draw air into your lungs. When it's less restricted, you can draw in more air, & do it with less effort. Also your digestive system use up a lot of oxygen that you can't spare to digest food. So work it less with smaller but more frequent meals.

Get plenty of omega-3, vitamin D, & antioxidants. Have a nice glass of wine after lunch & dinner. Don't give up on medical science but check out alternative treatments to use in addition to what your doctors recommend. Before beginning any alternative treatments check with your doctors to make sure it won't interfere with or hinder their prescribed treatments. As long as it won't hurt anything they're trying to do, I'd do any alternative treatments that offer some hope or relief.

Some days I get way too out of breath just getting up & going to the bathroom. But on a good day I can still walk a couple miles before I need to sit, rest, & catch my breath, then walk a couple miles back. If I catch a cold or flu, it can be life threatening to me, & would require a trip to the hospital because my lungs can't take it.

Anywho, the point is, keep trying. Try not to give up. I know it's hard, but keeping your spirits up will improve your health, & overall well being. Remember there's still people (and us) who still love you. Get well as you can soon, & look for things to make you happy. Your brain uses a lot of oxygen. The more stress, worry, & frustration you deal with the more O2 your brain consumes that you can use somewhere else. Try to get rid of as much stress as you can in life. Try to think good happy thoughts, watch a happy movie, play a happy song. Surround yourself with good happy things. It may not be a cure, but you'll feel a little better... which helps a lot.


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Re: Hello Everyone
« Reply #2 on: March 11, 2013, 06:03:29 PM »
Are you still here my friend? If you can respond, PM us or me here, or email me at betty at buffalobetties dot com. We can help you. It's not over till the fat lady sings, I'm 87 pounds & won't sing until you're doing better. Contact us. We may or may not have a cure but we can make it better for you. Please let help us help you. We love you dearly & are still in our hearts. Please let us help! More info. If we can't fix it, we can make it better. My poor baby. Let us give you lots of hugs, kisses, prayers, & as usual, a few  little spankings deserved for being here. I'll find some way to get there & spank you silly if you don't get better! Hang in there & let us help!


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« Reply #3 on: March 11, 2013, 06:16:58 PM »
I almost died Sun. night. Couldn't breathe. no O2  in the house for months. Was ready to call an ambulance to go to the hospital. No heath insurance anymore. Remembering everybody I know in a similar situation even with health insurance, soon after a tube goes down their throat in pain, not able to speak. they die hours or weeks later. I decided not go that way. I thought due to my own technology & research, I'd just do it my own way in the life/death situation. I was doing better, breathing good, & fit after doing my own thing just a little later. No insurance anymore means no inhalers or other meds either unless I pay cash.

Pretty scary, to be at risk of death of self or another & have to decide what to do. Until recently, it wasn't about "self" until I realized I'm not quite done yet. Maybe if I never finish everything I'm supposed to finish, I'll still be here when I'm 80. We have users in their 80s here. Your advice on how you made it this far is always welcome.... Please!

Yesterday, suddenly on the floor gasping for air, & later on the bed, near suffocation, I did the opposite of what should help & fired up my own technology & prayers.... "it's not time for me to go just yet" prayer. Getting off my bed, gasping on my hands & knees, I pushed some buttons,  reached up to change a few things, & was breathing perfectly within an hour. Simple technology saved my ass for the day, but simple prayers  made me think about what to do when I was on my last few minutes of life.

Today I'm going strong. Not out of breath at all working hard. Still no O2 in the house. Not cured but happy to be alive & fit again. I hope it don't happen again though. There's no guarantee in life but am very happy to feel good & healthy today.

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Re: Hello Everyone
« Reply #4 on: March 11, 2013, 09:35:16 PM »
Betty I do hope you are feeling better as I write this, I have learned a lot off you even though you had no idea you were helping me.

I think I can speak for all of us and say we will be praying for you and hoping that you can get some medical help also.

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« Reply #5 on: March 12, 2013, 02:34:07 AM »
Feeling real good today again. We've been having some warmer weather with highs in the 60F. So Sunday I opened widows to let some fresh air in. Big mistake. It made me feel miserable. It smells like a swamp & poo outside. Months of dog, cat, squirrel, & bird poop that was frozen in ice has thawed. All the lawns are a muddy poopy mess. Still too early in the year for flies & normal bacterial to break all that crap down, but I'm sure there's lots of mold growing in that damp ground. Not good air to breathe with COPD. It made my breathing terrible.

Today was another nice day. But I only left a couple windows cracked open just a little, & ran my air filters at full blast inside. So I'm breathing good.

Lesson learned: No matter how nice a day is, it does not mean it'll be a good day for breathing.

Some days I can go outside in near zero F temperatures & still breathe good enough. Many summer days I had to stay inside with AC on because I couldn't breathe out there.

Still running my air filters on high right now. There goes my electric bill. It's up about 20% by running them, but they really do help me breathe better. Sometimes I only need one running on low, or can shut them off overnight, but have to turn them both on high when I first get up to clean the air.

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Re: Hello Everyone
« Reply #6 on: March 12, 2013, 09:01:35 PM »
Betty maybe a timer on your air filters would help you save a little on the power, instead of leaving it on  for long periods, have it come on every few hours on high.

I think they consume the same power on high as they do low, and you can have one running a little while before you start to move around instead of having to put them on trying to catch up.

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« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2013, 04:32:01 PM »
In the mornings I breathe harder when I get up whether I leave the filters on high or off all night. When I'm working an all-nighter till morning it's different. Then I breathe harder after a mid-day nap. It seems breathing is always harder if I've been a rest for a few hours. I think it takes a few hours of breathing hard, at a faster heart rate to saturate the blood & muscles with enough O2 to move around much.

COPD is a progressive disease, & the older you get, we all get a touch of COPD, or a bad case. The less pollutants & particles that get in your lungs the better your lungs will be. The pollutants can also cause infections, & cause your lungs to work harder. They fill up with more phlegm, to clean the debris & infections out of the lungs. The more phlegm in your lungs, the less they can absorb O2.

Even "natural" air can be full of lung irritants that people with lung conditions are more sensitive to.... dust, mold, dried microscopic particles of leaves & other vegetation, dried dust particles of animal poop, decomposing animals or insects, chlorophyll from freshly cut grass or bushes, ground level ozone, & even a barbecue, campfire, or chimney puffing pollutants from blocks away. High humidity breeds more mold & bacteria. It also displaces the amount of air & O2 available per cubic foot. Hot air is also less dense than cool air, so holds less O2 per cubic foot too. Thats why everyone with COPD should have at least 1 small AC unit to escape from high humility & heat.

A lawn mover, or car passing by when the wind is blowing the exhaust fumes your way can trigger a breathing attack. Standing at a busy intersection full of cars & trucks waiting for the light to change can cause me to breathe heavier than walking down a quiet street. Sometimes I walk the long way around, just to avoid the high traffic pollution & breathe easier.

So I can't time when I need the filters running the highest. I crank them up when I'm gasping the most, & turn them down or off when things are better.

I think your talking about the power consumption of AC, not air filters. In air conditioning, the compressor draws the most electricity. The blower draws very little by comparison. The compessor runs either on or off, not high or low (unless you have 2 compressor, 2 stage central air). When you turn the AC on low, you're only lowering the blower speed. The blower can consume 60-200 watts depending on the size of the unit. Turning it down lowers the blower speed & power to about half it's rated power. But the compressor on even the smallest window units can consume 350 watts every time it cycles on, to several thousand watts on large window units. So a low speed setting will only decrease the power used by the blower. But the lower blower speed will also mean the AC unit won't run as efficient as on a high blower speed. So the amount of electricity saved by running the blower on low will be negligible. But noisy AC units run quieter on the low speed.

Air filters however are only a blower forcing air through a filter to trap particles, or sometimes a charcoal filter to remove some gasses. Some may also have an ionizer or ozone generator which only consume a few watts. So lowering the blower speed when possible will save a lot of electricity, & wear & tear of the motor. COPD sufferers should avoid ionizer-only filters that rely on an ion generator with big fins, metal screens, or plates inside, with little or no true particle filters in them (or no or only a small fan in them). They just don't do a good job for COPD needs. The poorly designed ones also may generate some ozone & nitrous oxide, which is bad for the lungs.

Ozone & nitrous oxide is corrosive. It can break down a lot of bad chemicals, or kill mold in the air & in the room. But ozone should only be used in unoccupied areas. After it does it's job, the air must settle for a few hours, or be well ventilated before occupying the room. True air filters with real filters in them to trap particles that happen to have ion generators are OK though. Most of them pass the filtered air over negatively charges needles (not charged plates, fins, or metal screens). Those kind only generate negative ions, & cannot accidentally generate ozone (like when they get a little dirty).

There's a lot of confusion about negative ions. Negative ions are OK... if they're generated by charged needles. Other types may generate some ozone & nitrous oxide... especially after they get dirty.


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« Reply #8 on: March 14, 2013, 06:24:45 PM »
What I was thinking was your air filters were like dehumidifiers,  they have a compressor in them, sort of like a mini refrigerator it draws the moist air thru the core and traps it freezing it on the core, in your case trapping the dirty air particles.

Yours just pass air thru them and catch the pollutants.

If you need a dehumidifier I have a few extras sitting around because I used to use them 24/7, now I only run them a few hours a week.



 

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