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Author Topic: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!  (Read 11424 times)

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #10 on: October 23, 2016, 10:44:10 PM »
I hope you do understand that Free Prescriptions and Free dental are not really free.  Those who work are paying for it.  I am 70 and semiretired and If I can't pay for it then it doesn't get done.  I prepared for retirement the best I could but I still work part time to meet expenses.  I live in the US, and I don't expect anybody else paying for my medical or dental.  They have enough trying to make ends meet for themselves. 


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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #11 on: October 24, 2016, 05:21:26 PM »
In uk i paid for it in the way i pay my taxes.at 75 you get free tv licence.In scotland prescriptions are free for every one


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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #12 on: October 25, 2016, 10:33:38 AM »
Although there are plenty of males 75 or over, statistically most males don't live past their 70s. Most women live a little longer than men but not by much.

Hardly anybody makes it 100, it's rare for a male to make it to 90. You're very lucky to make it to 80, & only average if you reach 70.

That's one of the frustrating things we don't like to think or talk about much when we turn 60. Odds are that within a few years something is gonna knock us down or take us out. You've reached that age where your pets may actually outlive you, & the time suddenly flies by.

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #13 on: October 26, 2016, 04:36:13 AM »
it is strange that as you get older times appear to go faster

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #14 on: October 26, 2016, 06:40:18 AM »
Hi Samantha,

This is something a friend told me many years ago and I believe it to be true.

The amount of time passed relative to one’s age varies. For a 5-year-old, one year is 20% of their entire life. For a 50-year-old, however, one year is only 2% of their life. This “ratio theory,” proposed by Janet in 1877, suggests that we are constantly comparing time intervals with the total amount of time we’ve already lived.

It's from Scientific American and there are other reasons as well. You can see the whole article here. https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/mind-guest-blog/why-does-time-fly-as-we-get-older/

I was just talking with my brother about an article that had appeared in the New Yorker. When I went to find it I saw that it had happened more than five years ago. All I could think was, really, five years ago!

When I would visit my ancient Aunt on the first day of my vacation she would inevitably tell me it will be over before you know it, which was true but not what I really wanted to here. And I will close with something a friend told me. He called me up on a Monday and said, gosh I wish it was Friday. I told him not to rush my life. He said, ok, I wish it was last Friday.

Andy G.

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« Reply #15 on: October 26, 2016, 08:39:38 AM »
I thought it had more to do with relativity -- The slower the mind & body gets, the faster the world seems to go. Anybody over 50 who thinks they're still as sharp & quick as they were when they were young, is fooling themselves. No matter how fit, quick, & smart you are by 50, not as much as 20 years ago.

I would regularly take real IQ tests at least once a year. In my early 50s, the scores I was getting dropped a few points. I used to be quite hyperactive & time seem to take forever. After the flu brought on a heart attack & ruined my lungs, I slowed down a lot. IQ dropped even more significantly too. Still above average, but not remarkable anymore. It was right after that I noticed time suddenly flies by too.

At 50, I could run, jump, climb, swim, & bicycle faster & better than most people half my age. Suddenly I'm in worse shape than most my age.

BTW, I'm "freeloading" to eat rhe cheapest junk, pay the cheapest rent for a crap place in a bad area surrounded by hoodlums, criminals, & addicts, while I pay for 3 hybrid cloud, safe, & secure servers at $115 EACH per month! I work round the clock every day just to keep it all running, secure, safe, & keep the nasty buggers out (even unfriendly corporations, organizations, & governments). I do get stuff in to fix or rebuild, & still make stuff to sell, but it's not nearly enough. Some days I have a hard time just walking to the bathroom or making those cheap meals. I try very hard to do whatever I can, when I can.

The kitties, are spoiled rotten. They get better heath care, & better food than I get. We live in a system where if you're poor, have or adopt a pet, it's easier to get free or cheap professional excellent heath care for them than it is for people. Their food is not much of an expense & worth it. The entertainment value, cuddling, & adventure is cheaper than cable TV, going out, or spending money on frivolous things for fun. If I'm down, sick, or tired, they're always there for support, cuddles, & comfort. Even when we run out of kitty food, I gladly give up a portion of my own food to give them, as long as it's safe & healthy for them.

I still eat Ramen at $2 for a 12-pack, or rice & beans almost every day for every meal since 2012. On a good month, oatmeal with sugar for breakfast -- the milk comes powdered in bulk cheap.

Priorities are coffee. Nothing treats my COPD & breathing better than coffee. I tried raw caffiene. Although it helped, not as good as coffee, so there's something more than just the caffeine working in coffee. After a few years with COPD, I noticed turkey & grapefruit also helps my breathing. But due to other expenses to survive, & keep working, they became too expesive on a tight budget. It's been almost a year since I had anything with turkey in it, & much longer since I had anything with grapefruit in it.

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #16 on: October 26, 2016, 08:31:06 PM »
Hey Betty and Andy, I think when we are young we take life for granted. We never expect that one day age or disease will catch up to us in such a big way. Before I retired I would put in a very active 8 to 10 hour day and then go home and work around the house or in my workshop sometimes until late. It never seemed to bother me much and I was getting away with only 4 to 6 hours sleep as well. I never considered early retirement until my dear old mom started getting dementia and not looking after herself. After forty two years on the job I thought OK I can do this quite easily and enjoy life as well. WOW, big surprise for me. Nobody can prepare you for looking after an aging relative with dementia as it is a real challenge. With all the hours and all the stress, my blood pressure went through the roof and then I got Shingles. Another big challenge besides mom but I got through it with some lasting effects but nothing like you have Betty. Well these things sure slowed me down and now it seems I need 8 to 12 hours sleep just to feel normal again. Like I said before I am lucky in that I have a good health plan and some very good friends in the health field getting me through my issues one day at a time. I was always a pretty sharp minded guy but now I am slowing down and my memory sure is not what it once was. They say Time Marches On but it seems to fly by for us. Still we are the fortunate ones, as there are many names missing from this site that were once our friends and partners in crime and we miss them and in some cases wonder what became of them.

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #17 on: October 27, 2016, 05:07:49 AM »
hi Angela,Andy and Betty

I always thought my body would never die and would feel like I was when i was 16. But boy, how much I was wrong.

I am now 63 retired, and i still help in my friends shop and also help too look after their dad who has had a few strokes. Now I am starting to feel young outside, but the inside of my body not like this. I had a slipped disc when I was doing nursing, but still miss trying to help people.

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #18 on: October 27, 2016, 05:10:24 AM »
Believe it or not, I am doing more hours working than when i used too do full time work many years ago

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Re: Oh dear, it looks like the Fall Flickr has snuck up on us already!
« Reply #19 on: October 29, 2016, 04:49:04 PM »
Hello everybody and welcome back to My Weekly Flickr.

Today started out fairly chilly but it turned into an absolutely beautiful day and it may reach 70 degrees tomorrow. Clearly softening me up for the brutal cold which can’t be too far away now.

My adventure with doctors continues. I got the results of the hepatitis bloodwork and it showed a positive in one instance. In itself this doesn’t mean anything as you need to have two positives to make a diagnosis, that is, this is probably a false positive. So I go back on Monday for a different blood test which hopefully will rule this out. My sonogram showed nothing wrong with any of my organs but there was a spot on my common bile duct which connects the liver to the intestine. So I will go for a Cat scan to look into that. One good thing is that the doctor did go back and look at the MRI the neurologist prescribed and he told me I can stop taking the generic statin which pleased me as I never fully believed I needed to be on it and it’s a possible cause for the high  number on my liver blood test. The doctor hasn’t expressed any urgency in any of this so on the whole I think I’m in pretty good shape. But I’ll be happy when this battery of tests is over which won’t be for another three weeks.

I told my boss I was retiring at the end of the year and he took it well so that’s something I can stop obsessing about which also pleases me.

This morning I took the long walk up to the Metropolitan Museum of Art to see, Valentin de Boulogne: Beyond Caravaggio. As I just said in an email to my brother about it, Wow! What an exhibit, really spectacular. He had seen it when it opened and told me it was wonderful and he was right. I was completely unfamiliar with him as I think many people who visit the exhibit will be but he clearly was a major talent. He was born 20 years after Caravaggio and died at an early age, 10 years after Caravaggio passed away. He was considered one of three artists to be his heir, along with Jusepe de Ribera and Bartolomeo Manfredi, both of whom have paintings at the beginning of the show. It’s a large exhibit, 45 of his 60 known paintings, with all of his works from the Louvre on display. Many of them are enormous wall size depictions of biblical tales or musical scenes or card playing, fortune telling and chicanery. The people in his paintings are real people with real emotions, innovatively he worked from live models and they appear and reappear in the paintings. I will certainly go back for a second look as like so many of the exhibits I’ve enjoyed this is really a once in a lifetime opportunity to see many of these works.

This is a link to the NY Times article on the exhibit with a number of illustrations. http://www.nytimes.com/2016/10/07/arts/design/review-valentin-de-boulogne-bright-star-in-caravaggios-orbit.html?_r=0

A few paintings I especially enjoyed are:

Samson, in which he painted himself as the strongman, he was a very good looking man. http://tinyurl.com/zo4js9l

Fortune-Teller with soldiers, his paintings can be very dark and there’s really a lot to see in this one. The man having his fortune read while a little boy is picking the pocket of a cloaked man who simultaneously is stealing from the gypsy fortune teller, while the man’s friends look on   http://tinyurl.com/zd88lvo

Christ Driving the Merchants from the Temple, a threatening Christ overturning the table and causing chaos and fear among the men, women and children. As the note on the site says, the two men at the bottom seem to fall out of the picture.  http://tinyurl.com/za54jbo

Cardsharps, the naĂŻve young man staring at his cards not realizing the man behind him is giving away his cards and you can see the other trickster palming cards in his other hand. http://tinyurl.com/jo2zsez

This is a link to all the pictures in the exhibit http://tinyurl.com/jncxwpc Click on 100 at the bottom to see all pictures on one page. Right click to open each picture in a new tab or when you click back the site reverts back to 20 pictures on a page.

I wish the images on the web more faithfully depicted the paintings hanging on the wall but I think you can appreciate the greatness of the artist.

And so, off to the Flickrs.

Andy G.

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Trying different wigs!

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