Due to Betty's recent illness, most of Betty's sites are limited to members only, and no new registrations for memberships will be accepted at this time.

Trans News ~ Headline News ~ Science News ~ Tech News ~ Paranormal & Aliens
Odd News ~ Betty's YouTube ~ My other channel


The more you give, the
more I can give back!

There has been,

Hits to Betty's
Pubs since
Sept. 30th, 2004

Author Topic: Boys as Girls :)  (Read 34792 times)

0 Members and 2 Guests are viewing this topic.

Offline Angela M...

  • Global Moderator
  • Winner of the Golden Panties Award
  • ******
  • Posts: 589
  • Karma: +11131/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #40 on: August 23, 2017, 10:49:23 PM »
Love this photo, he looks as happy as I would at his age trying on my sisters things.


Offline Robyn Jodie

  • Global Moderator
  • Winner of the Golden Panties Award
  • ******
  • Posts: 237
  • Karma: +10190/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #41 on: August 24, 2017, 11:15:18 AM »
it would be more appropriate to use the term transgender rather than transsexual....
Yeah, I'm old, old enough to remember the big to-do about Christine Jorgensen and Renee Richards, and by "transsexual" I was thinking specifically of those who had undergone sex reassignment surgery. I stand corrected on my terminology.  But your comment suggests that people who were born male but identify as female should indeed be put in a separate group when classifying the photos, especially since they consider themselves to be female.

Then we would have four classes of photos: (1) males wearing clothes traditionally associated with females, (2) genetic males who identify as female, (3) genetic females who look like males dressed as females, and (4) Photoshops, whether by putting male heads on female bodies, or (as I have sometimes seen) smoothing out a pair of shorts into a skirt or making a similar alteration in a photo of a male.

There would still be some slippage, especially with "genderqueer" young people: boys who prefer "girlish" clothing but may or may not identify as female now or grow up to identify as female.

Oh, and P.S., it's "Robyn Jodie," not just "Robyn" -- you wouldn't call Mary Jane shoes "Mary shoes" would you? All because I spell my first name with a space rather than a hyphen! :-)


Offline cutepatti

  • Board Queen
  • *****
  • Posts: 62
  • Karma: +473/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #42 on: August 24, 2017, 01:29:58 PM »
Sorry about the name-oops, Robyn Jodie. Didn't mean to offend!

I wasn't speaking specifically about classifying photos. My comment was regarding your use of the word transsexual, since it is a term that is rarely used anymore for individuals who live as a gender other than what they were born. Transgender is more representative & inclusive since it applies to all such individuals whether they are pre-op, post-op, or non-op. That was the only point I was really wanting to make.

Appreciate your response. We really need more interaction like this on here. :)

Offline cutepatti

  • Board Queen
  • *****
  • Posts: 62
  • Karma: +473/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #43 on: August 24, 2017, 01:37:50 PM »
Cute pic of young thai boys dressed as girls for a festival. Since Thailand has an abundance of 'ladyboys' I wonder how many of these will become one?  ;D

Offline cutepatti

  • Board Queen
  • *****
  • Posts: 62
  • Karma: +473/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #44 on: August 24, 2017, 02:23:12 PM »
this looks legit, but not sure. good one regardless.

Offline cutepatti

  • Board Queen
  • *****
  • Posts: 62
  • Karma: +473/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #45 on: August 24, 2017, 02:26:42 PM »
this is a tough one. girl or boy? i think girl...no, boy...no, girl...no, boy.  jeez, what do you think? :-\

Offline Betty

  • Administrator
  • Winner of the Golden Panties Award
  • ******
  • Posts: 5540
  • Karma: +10109/-10101
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #46 on: August 25, 2017, 11:39:56 AM »
Quote
it would be more appropriate to use the term transgender rather than transsexual....
Or in a broader term to cover more of it with less confusion, and not having to be forced to identify or guess each individuals personal & specific tastes, or feelings that day... just "Trans"... but not to be confused with the rude term or used by the uninformed or outsiders, "Tranny".

Quote
Then we would have four classes of photos: (1) males wearing clothes traditionally associated with females, (2) genetic males who identify as female, (3) genetic females who look like males dressed as females, and (4) Photoshops, whether by putting male heads on female bodies, or (as I have sometimes seen) smoothing out a pair of shorts into a skirt or making a similar alteration in a photo of a male.

There are quite a few where they hand-drawn ruffles to the collar or trim to a male's clothing, drew in some bows, or literally gave a girl a haircut in a photo by airbrushing out some of their hair, so they appear male. Painting pigtails, ruffles, eyelashes, lipstick, & earrings on a male photo is quite common. I've done all of the above to a few pictures circulating around over the years, rather than pasting heads on another body, or pasting a dress on someone. It looks more realistic.

Quote
Oh, and P.S., it's "Robyn Jodie," not just "Robyn" -- you wouldn't call Mary Jane shoes "Mary shoes" would you? All because I spell my first name with a space rather than a hyphen!

But they do call Mary Jane shoes, just "Mary Janes".

It is quite common, & usually acceptable here, at most forums, or on social media to be on a first-name basis to who you are referring to... unless there is someone else with the same first name in the conversation's thread or talk group. Then, they may use a last name initial too. Someone may refer to someone as "John V." so they're not confused with "John D." in the same group or thread.

Most of us refer to "Mary Beth Sanford" as "Mary Beth", but we don't call her just "Mary" because there are too many called Mary. No offense is intended or should be taken by modern typing, internet, or social media shorthand... it's just how things work & are done these days.

I go by the screen name "Betty". "Betty Pearl" is a website name. BuffaloBetties, UncleGadget, & PearlCorona are domain names. I'll answer to all of them, but will remind them that domain names are not personal or screen names & not my name. Domains come & go, can be faked, bought, or stolen.

Some people were just getting used to writing & typing on a keyboard when they came out with tap-screen portables, so they stopped learning any real typing. These portables have auto-complete, auto-suggest, auto-type, & auto spell-check. Although most of those devices will remember words you type the most, & suggest or auto-complete with them, they won't remember everything.

Some people aren't very good with English, & it isn't their primary language. Some of them are tapping/typing on a small or older phone with a 240x320 pixel screen. With all those drawbacks & obstacles faced with joining, logging in, & posting on those  little portables, I'm happy that they can post anything understandable with them.

More than half our daytime visitors come here on a portable, & about half are from outside the USA. English is not their primary language for about 1/3 of them. It's not even that they never get on a computer. But living with a roommate, family, or being on a shared computer or connection, visiting Betty's on their own private & personal portable, or pocket device may be their only option to visit privately.

Back in the late 1990s when I was working 50-70 hour work weeks, I was more likely visiting & managing Betty's on a small webtv unit with a tiny wireless keyboard, connected to a 350p 12" television on a dialup connection. It was in my isolated basement office/shop at work. There were computers in the main offices there, but I couldn't privately visit Betty's there. By the time I got home, I had enough time to eat, take care of/play with the cats, & go to sleep. Not much time to get on the home computer unless I had a day off or was blessed with a short day. Most of my posts back then were done quickly in a hurry during a coffee or meal break at work. When you're at work 10-20 hours in a day, they will let you wander off if you have a chance for a quick break, coffee, or meal occasionally.

Shortly after the turn of the century, I was visiting, posting, & managing Betty's most of the time during breaks at work with a $45 phone with a 320x400 pixel 3-inch wide screen (via their WiFi). Many of my posts, & emails back then were made in a hurry at work while sitting on the crapper at work with a phone.

And back then, we didn't have a separate special mobile feed for Betty's. So I know first-hand the difficultly many of our users have visiting on small, older, or cheap portable devices. But I didn't bother making a separate mobile feed of Betty's until it was almost half our daytime visitors were here on mobile devices.

Even today, since I was forced into early retirement because of COPD, my first visit to Betty's of the day or my email & message checks may be on a portable while sitting on the toilet... or the last visit & message checks before bed time.

Let them type any way they want. I only draw the line when they don't try to use any caps or punctuation at all, or the post cannot be understood. Why waste their time & mine by posting something where nobody can understand what they were talking about? Also when somebody appears to be posting drunk or has severe mental problems, this isn't the best place they should be at that time.

Offline cutepatti

  • Board Queen
  • *****
  • Posts: 62
  • Karma: +473/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #47 on: August 25, 2017, 12:23:59 PM »
Wow, Betty, so you had a WebTV system too? That was my first 'computer' also that I bought in 1997. Used it for several years until I finally got my first desk-top. Was a good system when dial-up was all I had available and nice to have it hooked up to a large screen TV. I remember that it came with a big handbook that listed hundreds of websites where you could just enter a code to go to them. Was obsolete almost immediately as new websites came online everyday and I don't think I even used any of the codes. Search engines were starting up then and the guide became a relic very quickly. My how times have changed. But a good memory. :)   

Offline Robyn Jodie

  • Global Moderator
  • Winner of the Golden Panties Award
  • ******
  • Posts: 237
  • Karma: +10190/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #48 on: August 25, 2017, 04:26:07 PM »
Lest there be any confusion, when I stated that my first name was Robyn Jodie, and not just Robyn, I wasn't trying to correct as such, but rather to to express my preference as to what I would like to be called. Other than that, it doesn't much matter what you call me -- just not "Stupid" or "Insensitive."
In real life, I have told people that if they can't remember my name, just say "chocolate" -- I'll turn around...  :)

Offline cutepatti

  • Board Queen
  • *****
  • Posts: 62
  • Karma: +473/-0
Re: Boys as Girls :)
« Reply #49 on: August 26, 2017, 04:16:26 PM »
I love blondes, but the brunette ain't bad either. Very cute, all of them.  :)

 

The more you give,

the more I can give back.

The dots in the map below represent every person who visited Betty's since May 17, 2020. Blinking dots show people currently here. However if you haven't clicked on anything in a couple minutes your dot won't blink until you click on something again.

























Web
Analytics

Hits to Betty's Pubs since Sept. 30th, 2004

eXTReMe Tracker

Website, forum design, software, & security on this site is copyrighted. It was made personally by Betty Pearl, of Betty Pearl's Pubs, Sissy Stories, buffalobetties, & pearlcorona. Betty's Pub is a non-profit organization & support group for the transgendered, & Fetware community. We don't sell anything, & we don't data mine your personal information & habits to sell like MOST other sites do. We respect your privacy & won't sell it out for a few bucks.

Site for: Sissy Stories, ABDL Stories, Sissy Art, Crossdressing, Transgender