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Offline FionaP

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Real boy bridesmaid
« on: August 28, 2015, 10:36:30 AM »
An interesting tale which, I think, is from 2005 regarding an under twelve year old boy who acted as bridesmaid at a relative's wedding.

He looked very pretty and if I knew how to download the pictures I would.  I'm sure somebody more computer literate than myself will be able to do so.

The text is in Spanish and the link is here with the story under the heading Siriam fue la “Dama de Honor” and my apologies if it has been here on Betty's previously:

https://mahamed4.wordpress.com/


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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #1 on: August 28, 2015, 12:19:01 PM »
I think a common confusion has been made here and perhaps in the original as well (although I am not familiar enough with Spanish to question the term "Dama de Honor" for what he did).  The boy in question seems to be serving as what we would call a "flower girl" (must be under 12 years old) rather than a "bridesmaid," who would be older, usually a close friend of the bride.

I don't know why, when or who started calling flower girls "bridesmaids," but I've mostly seen it in TG fiction where I've always chalked it up to insufficient knowledge of wedding protocol and terminology.


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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #2 on: August 28, 2015, 05:56:34 PM »
Thanks Fiona, very nice.

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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #3 on: August 29, 2015, 12:16:04 PM »
Ahem...yes...I should have said "thank you" before launching into any kind of criticism: Thank you, Fiona!  A very nice find; the photos were wonderful.  My favorite shot was the one with the boy in his dress before the elaborate make-up went on.

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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #4 on: September 01, 2015, 05:53:48 PM »
Hi,

I'm pretty sure this video has been posted but if so it's been a while and I thought it fit in well with our boy flowergirl, although he wasn't thrilled about wearing his princess dress. In looking at the pictures again something just occurred to me, why wasn't the younger boy in the group portrait chosen to be the flowergirl? Or was he chosen and balked.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdY3V8lxG4U

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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #5 on: September 01, 2015, 10:17:58 PM »
I don't know much about wedding stuff - me being single and likely to stay that way ! LOL !
Maybe the youngest gets to be a ring bearer (on a pillow) - heck I don't know !

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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #6 on: September 17, 2015, 06:35:21 AM »
I do not speak, read or write Spanish so my observations are based on Bing translator.  I believe that it implied that the child, by custom, had to be a relative of the bride so perhaps the younger child didn't fit into that category.

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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #7 on: September 21, 2015, 05:30:32 AM »
The outfit I am wearing "upper left LOL" Was, my mum always told me my pageboy outfit  at a wedding but it looks more like a bridesmaid outfit ,I always liked satin and silk anyway,perhaps thats where I got it from. :-*
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Re: Real boy bridesmaid
« Reply #8 on: November 26, 2015, 03:02:29 PM »
In the on line translation, I've substituted some of the text, which can be found in italics.

I think many wonder why "Siriam" my nephew was our "Maid of Honor" is a good and very long story.

As we all know my sister is home with  "Siriam" A Spanish immigrant Hindu, who is a cousin of "Mahamed" my husband who is a son of Hindu immigrants.

As both Siriam Parent Kolam and my husband come from a region in southern India and in this part of the world they believe that for the marriage the "Maid of Honor" should be a girl under 12 who is familiar with the Bride and if there is a child in the family with these requirements, then this role should be a child, but can never be a person outside the family.

Well, the only person in my household's family who is under 12 years is "Siriam" the son of my sister Silvia and her husband. "Siriam" thus consented to the be my maid of honor.

For my sister and me this was something very strange, but the parents of my brother and my husband said that if it was not Siriam the "Bridesmaid" then our matromonio marriage could not have God's blessing and misfortune might fall on us, So gladly we accepted him.

Everyone was terrified that a boy was dressed as a bridesmaid, it was very strange and even ridiculous, on several occasions I almost burst out laughing and poor Siriam should feel very humbled to wear these outfits. We forgot depiliate his legs as they were too hairy to be of a lady, lol

David (the boy in the photo) was the pajesito Ring Bearer?, the son of a cousin of mine, the poor boy was confused with Siriam not knowing whether to treat Siriam as a girl or boy, I think we felt all the same. They made nice couple, haha.

The attached picture shows The couple, my brother, David and Siriam.

Although David is smaller than Siriam, I suspect he could be older than him and that is why he's not acting as Maid of Honor, or, he was asked to be the Ring Bearer before they thought of asking Siriam.


 

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