If you are married, does your spouse support you being a sissy crossdresser?

[cutepatti]

Thanks Angela & Katrina for your very candid responses. I love that we can share with each other our feelings in a fairly open way on here.

Angela I agree with you about the changing sex at our current age not being something that I would want either. Not only because of the obvious problems it would create...but I've always felt that I don't want to just become a woman my age. I want to enjoy the little girl growing into an adolescent girl and then a teenaged girl and then into womanhood. I want the whole experience or not at all. Sort of explains why as a crossdresser I am a sissy. It's all I can be at my age. But it is as a little sissy GIRL. Loving not only the cute clothes and the feelings they give me, but the emotional release and feelings of pretending to be HER. My problem has always been the guilt I always feel since these wonderful times usually result in my adult male taking over for satisfaction. I will never be able to come to grips with that! But so it goes.

Katrina I'm happy that you have a spouse who not only accepts you but also helps you and loves this part of you. It is rare I'm sure for that to happen. It didn't with my first wife who I loved dearly. She tried after I confessed to her my feelings, but she just could not be an active participant. And I accepted that. We can only be or do what we feel we can do. Now I have a wife who is totally accepting of everything about me. Sure, her being transgender does make a difference I'm sure. But she was always a girl and knew it from age 3 or 4. She was never a crossdresser or sissy. She was a born as a boy but never felt like one and just lived as one when she had to because of school. So yes she is more open because she has had to face certain obstacles in her life. But she is the perfect 2nd companion for me. I'm happy for both you & me! 

[SissyPhilipa]

Hi cutepatti,

Took me long enough (been together 4 years) but I got a tiny bit of courage a couple of weeks ago and asked my fiancee (getting married next July) if it would be ok with her if I wore nighties to bed.

She giggled for a bit then asked why.  I just said I like the feel of them (which I do).  She said thats fine so I have been wearing nighties to bed ever since.

I dont want to push it to far by asking to wear dresses and skirts though think she might freak out :-(

At the moment I am wearing her nighties (lucky for me all her nighties are proper frilly, sexy, girly :-)).

I am taller than her though so secretly hoping she buys me a nightie or lingerie set for Christmas or even better matching set for me and her.

[Teddylein]

I am glad that there is a forum like this, in which I can exchange.
Even in my childhod, I dreamed of belonging to a woman who keeps me trapped in her feminin world, like a sweet little girls-dolly.
In addition I have a strong soft spot for soft feminin clothes .
A fetish. While my friends fell for bar skin, the women enveloping me in soft, cuddly clothes. I dreamed that they would capture me and wrap me in their soft clothes as well.
All my life I have been looking for a woman who is dominant in this tender way. And I allways made compromises.
My last partnership ends in a desaster.
Now I have a girlfriend who is neither dominantn or wants to make me a sissyboy. But she like it when I wear her panties , and she knits me pink skarves. :0)
Sorry when I  write a little bit strange! I need a translator. I do not speak english verry well.

[Angela M...]

Hello Teddylein, I can relate to some of the things you said like wanting to find a girl/woman to keep you trapped in her feminine world. I have had a few girlfriends who upon discovering my fetish for girls clothes helped me to enjoy dressing up in their clothes. Of course this does not last long after parents discover the pervert boy playing with their daughters but in most cases they insisted that I keep some of their things to dress in secret. I am so hooked on these pretty soft things and the memories to go with them, that I still have a few items of their clothing almost 60 years later. Of course they are not wearable now due to size the the age of the items and the elastic waist bands fraying away to nothing. I never did find a woman to surround me in the wonderful clothes I loved and even dominate me a little but we can't have all our wishes come true can we or we would all be the girls we hoped we would wake up as someday. I did capture two woman in my lifetime and tie them down and slowly tease and make love to them as I wanted to happen to me but only one time did that happen to me and I was in heaven. Tied to the bed stretched out and wearing frilly pink panties with another pair stuffed in my mouth. She slowly teased and played with me and called me her sissy Princess. I was in love and lust at the same time and as she slowly teased me to the end I thought I had found my Mistress. When all was said and done I discovered that she hated every minute of it and even my telling her she was so good at it only got me called a pervert. We can't always get what we want.

[Teddylein]

Thank you Angela for the answere.  the girl I have talken about, was faszinated from my sexual expiriens. She buys Books:SM for beginners, and SM novels. And I sewed handcufs, while i renovated my hous for us, and her three children. She tied me on her clother, and give me istructions how I have to be her toy, whil she tied a cord on my dingdong.
A few jears later she said that she did not know that i need it realy, and I need a Psychologist. Than she saw my pictures I have drawen, than she means I am not a Man.
I was so freed as our paths parted. Now when I am alone in my bed, I pull my fluffy sleepin pants on, and my fauxfur jacked with a little bell on it and a pink skarf, ore a extrem fluffy white witch kribbelt on my nose. And i dream that I am the toy of two girls.
Ouh! And the pictures you can see by Deviant Art, my name there is Teddyxx. ;0)